You would think when the marriage comes to an end, that is where everything stops. If you get married and then divorce, how often would you expect to see your ex at family functions? The answer varies for many people but you will not always be happy with the results.

 The closer your family is with your partner, they tend to support this bond once your partner becomes your ex. All you really want is a clean break as you move on with your life but this story is only written for seldom few. 

 Now, what is your next course of action?

 This situation is not easily avoided and if you move on, this is where you need to sit with your family and discuss how you feel about them inviting your ex to every event. Keep in mind, not every NEW partner cares to party or be around your OLD partner unless it is coincidence or has to do with the children.

 Sit with your new partner and let them know what to expect as the months/years progress. It is only fair to let them decide if they want to deal with your ex who is always around your family or not. Never FORCE this on anyone!

 Do not expect for your ex to stop visiting and communicating with your family; regardless how you feel about it. This bond works for some families and…..

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