We all know when our relationship has come to a point that it needs to end, most of us simply do not know how to properly call it quits when we should. Everything under the sun becomes our excuse or we are so comfortable with the negative in our relationships, that we just do not care to change anything.

 What exactly keeps you dangling on the string? Are you waiting for something new, or change in the right direction? Perhaps you are waiting on someone new to come and take you away from your miserable coexistence with your lover? Regardless, you need something to pop and you need for it to happen, YESTERDAY!

 As the weather changes, so do we. It would seem that many of us deal with less of the drama during the warm months and put up with drama for the winter. Visual options play a large part in our change of heart and we go with the first emotion to surface. The warmer it becomes outside, the more we tend to play the field.

 The strongest of relationships survive any season. The pattern for success is based off the strength that relationship maintains. These people communicate, experiment, trust, build, innovate, change, rise, fall and succeed as one; without fail. If you were wondering about the ingredients to happiness, the aforementioned is only a few.

 The need to always be right, will destroy you. The want to get the last word, will fail you and the desire to keep up the mentality that you refuse to include your lover in on decisions that takes two to make; will ultimately become your demise.

 If your support system is HIM walking away each time you speak…..

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 SHE decides what is going on in your life, just does not seem relevant enough for her to care?

Perhaps, evaluating your place in your relationship would be wise. At times we try to FORCE what was never meant to happen but in reality; you can not possibly make someone else happy, if YOU are not happy.

For more, ask Daym.