Do you respond with anger and violence or do you simply walk away? What becomes of those who choose to stay?

The bitter are often vengeful but they play their part as if the script was written for them to near perfection. He has every right to be upset; she has every reason to remain bitter but does the cheater in these situations have something to worry about?

Most cheaters receive a mere slap on the wrist and they live out their lives with the action behind them as they move forward to make the relationship, stronger. The rest are caught up in a tangled web of lies and lust that trail them for the rest of their days, which end are YOU?

The victim has options and here are a few:

1. To leave and remind you that you were never their beginning, nor are you the end of their lives.

2. Stay, in hopes that you learned a valuable lesson in what you almost lost. The victim may forgive you one day but they rarely forget.

3. Go completely crazy and try their BEST to make you and everyone involved feel their pain one way or another. (which is NEVER recommended)

4. Payback is a dish served RAW! These victims know, even when you THINK they do not and they hold this card until they feel the time is right to play it and use it as their reasoning and defense at a later date.

If you feel the need to cheat, just leave. In the heat of the moment you damn sure are NOT thinking of your significant other at home; if you were THAT is where you would be.

Regardless, the cheating will continue as will the outcome of these poor choices. There is nothing that we do in this life, that we will not pay for in this life.

Choose wisely what today, tomorrow and your future will consist of and go forward with being the bigger person to do the RIGHT thing, if you choose to do the WRONG thing.

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