Harsh words, are they not? Do you recall these words being spoken to you and if so, how did it make you feel?
Perhaps it crushed a few hopes and dreams that you had with this individual or even changed your very perception of this person but did it SCREAM, stay?!?
Sadly enough, many feel that the best they can do in life is with someone who treats them as if they are worthless. They are mentally beaten down to a point of no return and so to hear these very words spoken, “I do not love you anymore” is nothing more than another kick in the chest but they accept it all the same.
We do not always have the right answers but this does not mean we are not old enough to make the right decision. You need to accept reality and go on with your life! Just because you are in a relationship does not mean the relationship with that person was meant to be.
Warning signs are posted DAILY and it is your job to see them. You do not need your friends to sit there and tell you, “The person you are with is no good for you” because your pride will not allow you to make the necessary changes; you need to see this for yourself.
How long will you wear that welcome mat so others feel free to walk all over you? STAND UP FOR YOURSELF and realign your spine! This is no longer about trying to make it work but more so about making a way for you to progress.
Verbal negativity is your forefront and this is due to you allowing it. This is due to you bringing your children around it and teaching them that being treated this way is acceptable. This is NOT the time to play the victim but become the victor!
STAND because you need to! Obligate yourself to demand MORE, for that is what you deserve! You have sat long enough taking this punishment and now YOU must rescue YOURSELF from this whirlwind of madness.
Easier said then done, huh? That is yet ANOTHER excuse! If you put your mind to it, IT WILL HAPPEN! No need to take my word for it, just look at the multitude of other individuals worldwide JUST LIKE YOU who made it happen but in order to do so; YOU need to get out of our own way, to MAKE A WAY!
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