This feeling is closely related to depression in more ways than one but we all feel it at some point in our lives. Let us start with the feeling while you are in a relationship.

You wake up to a routine that you have grown accustomed to and it is nothing short of a cry for help that falls upon deaf ears but you follow this routine for that is what keeps the peace. So often you just want to scream and express everything that you are feeling, this is to make you feel better or perhaps seek an understanding but for someone else to understand what you are going through, that would take a different type of appreciation and so you normally just bottle everything up and close yourself off to the world.

 Unfortunately this cycle is breaking you down and it needs to come to an end before you destroy everything that you have worked so hard to carry out in your life both personal and professionally. How do you take the steps in the right direction to change this feeling? You sat and talked it out about a few hundred times, so now what? Do you sit and wait for some miracle to change everything and make it better or do you accept hat the recent conversation about it will change things for a few good months before you are repeating the drama all over again?

 Honestly, only you have the answer to these questions. Reality brings your friends to you with every answer under the sun; good, bad or indifferent but it takes the will power on YOUR behalf  to truly do something about YOUR situation. For the most part, this relationship that you are in (though feeling alone at times) may just as well be a half decent relationship. This hiccup where the two of you have so much going on; you forget to fill the void with an overwhelming amount of love, is just a speed bump in your journey.

 If you want this repaired, you will find a way!

 What about those who feel alone, for they are not in a relationship and are simply done with meeting all of the WRONG people, what of these people?

 At times, the expectations are all over the place and we fail to prepare ourselves for what may come. You walk into a room for the first time and the home is not that of your own, what are your expectations of this room? Well if it is a home that has been fully renovated, you would like to see the size to make sure you have space for planning. Most women check the closets and some men count the outlets… She is thinking more clothes and he is thinking an office and or more electronics.

 Do you make the purchase of the home if it did NOT meet your requirements even though the price was perfect? It really depends on the person, for some people actually do. They walk in with the thought that after knocking down a few walls that anything is possible but then they also learn, the choice they made was not for the best. They are not as excited about their purchase and it becomes clear to them, had they waited a little while longer the house they truly wanted is now an affordable price and it was something they could work their magic in!

 Finding someone to fit your requirements is not always easy, for all of our needs differ. We want this, that and the third and for most people, they are only good for THIS…OR THAT…OR THIRD but rarely will you get all that you need. This is when we make a choice to sacrifice our wants and settle for no longer being alone; so we can say that we have someone to “fill the void” or share our lives with.

 We try to build a new person to fit those redeeming qualities  from what we have but this plan tends to backfire and we are left with nothing but disaster. The person that you are with never seems to quite GET IT! You have turned your face many shades trying to explain the basics to them and they still fail to comprehend. Trying to reason with them is out of the question!

 Days to week and weeks turn to months, as you sit there in hopes that something will give. ……

The two of you watching tv, which is a closed case of boredom for one of you. The two of you at a show, forced by never going anywhere and an argument, which is a closed case of boredom for one of you….The two of you finally having a dinner together, spending time together and even having that once a month (if at all) sexual romp together which is ultimately a closed case of boredom for one of you.

All of these things which are never consistent, leads to the feeling of being alone.

 The main reason some people will never change is simple, “They do not WANT to”

The reason you will STILL feel alone is because, “YOU ALLOW IT”

Things fail to change when action rests at refusals doorstep!

Fore more, ask Daym.