You would never think there was a difference between the two but in reality, there is. When was the last time you truly loved someone? Are you  in LOVE now or just simply in LUST? Perhaps by the time you have finished this entry; you will have a better understanding of having someone to love over just having someBODY to love.

 How often is your bed filled with a random; just a body that comforts and serves their purpose with the hopes they are GONE by the morning? The communication between both you and this person is seldom but as long as they are clear on maintaining bodily communication, they have satisfied their duties.

 To have a BODY present, does not satisfy the structure that you are seeking or even thought existed. Often, those who once found themselves in a wholesome loving relationship; quickly become strangers in their own household. Two ships that pass one another and come together to play a role before friends, family and of course the children. This is another case of having someBODY to love.

 When love is given whole heartedly by one and not met even halfway by the other. This is having someBODY to love. and hopefully we are clear by now but what about having someone to love?

Well, let us take a look…….

 When you go from feeding one another, finishing each others sentences because for once you are FINALLY in tune, holding hands in public while demonstrating affection to the point you force others to tell the two of you, “Go get a room!” The days where you will receive a simple, “I am thinking about you” text message or he stops to say, “I love you” without you saying it to him first all the time; just to branch a response from this man. When she builds your character around the universe, which at this point to her you are larger than life. These are only mentions of what having someone to love is truly about; for it is a love reciprocated.

 Do these people argue? Do they even have a bad day? Of course they do, this is the role of imperfection and it is played without fail for all of us but it does not mean we love our significant other any less. When we just want someone to love us, we are willing to accept a BODY to fill this position. That is right around the time everything goes downhill because our needs are rarely met. We find ourselves mentally trapped in a tornado of events from which we can not free ourselves; we ride it out until we can catch a moment to escape but why do we stand in our own way?

 You are a grown individual and at the end of the day, you know what you need. Perhaps you are just breaking free from a long-term relationship and now THIS TIME is about you! Let me say that again, because far too many of you jump from one train wreck right into a staged car crash..

“Perhaps you are just breaking free from a long-term relationship and now THIS TIME is about you!”

 Seek the companionship of your close friends and have FUN with life again! Yes, you will meet a few “BODIES” and it is your choice what you plan to do but do not lose yourself in the process of healing and restructure. When you are READY for and to love again, the moment will arise and the person who is deserving of you, will be your SOMEONE and not simply someBODY!

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