We use sex as our end all when things are not “right” with the relationship.

How often do you find yourself holding on because the sex is good? Be honest with yourself, more than likely you are reading this and saying, “Damn, the man or woman who I am with has absolutely NOTHING to offer but at least the sex is still mind-blowing!”

The reality remains that once they can no longer satisfy sexually, you have absolutely no use for them in which case you will dispose of this individual and move on. What if you could meet someone who met your desires and needs but sexually they had nothing to offer? Would this person be of any use to you at all or would you not even waste your time?

Some of you are probably saying, “Well I would keep this person around and when I had my sexual cravings I would go elsewhere to have those needs met.” Others could be thinking that they would not bother, for it is not fair to the person who is giving their all.

The ability to offer more than just sex, is a gift. If you could be in tune with someone else to know when they need more than what surface love can offer and still fall back when you need space; this is the beginning of something beautiful. When someone knows exactly when to hold you and tell you that everything is going to be just fine, for they will see you through. When you have someone to call your own who WITHOUT FAIL; ensures your safety, promotes your strength, conforms to your weaknesses while encouraging change, holds you and the household down without question and this person places YOU in their plans with or without you around?!?! Need I say MORE; or would you rather JUST SEX?

We are not here to judge the character of man nor woman. At the end of the day, there is no right or wrong answer for what YOU need in life but just know that the life we LEAD and the life that we LIVE has every option available to you in it! At times it is ok to want MORE, to be MORE and to require More than just SEX while seeking your root of happiness.

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