Disclaimer: Insecurity is extremely contagious! Once involved in an insecure relationship; (if weak enough), you tend to pick up on the bad habits of the infected and carry this disease with you through every relationship following. Proceed with caution.
An INSECURE Woman Will:
take the wheel of micromanaging her relationship and DRIVE someone away! The person who made a choice to love this insecure woman, did not willingly buy into the idea of needing to explain themselves every second of the day to show a sense of security on a consistent basis but they will do this to keep peace within the home.
An INSECURE Man Will:
use every number available to him, to make sure that you are right where you stated yourself to be. He is known to follow you or have you followed; even if the relationship is still new. In his own mind, your life has just been given to him and so an insecure man is as dangerous a mate as an insecure woman.
An INSECURE Woman Will:
push you over the edge, even if you never imagined anything going that far. This insecure woman never fails to create an uncomfortable atmosphere for YOU; for in the beginning she can not hide the fact that you are forever in comparison to every failed relationship that she had.
An INSECURE Man Will:
drain your soul, before you had a chance to appreciate life. The option to become your father, is his obsession. It comes to a point where even a trip to the bathroom is closely monitored by this man.
An INSECURE Woman Will:
give doubt to any and every female friend that you ever had. She will ask that you remove these friends, for they are no more than a distraction and eventually they will want MORE from you.
An INSECURE Man Will:
question every bond that you choose to keep with your male friends. He needs to know the following, “Where (did you meet him and when), What (is his purpose in your life) and Why (does he call you so often)?
An INSECURE Woman Will:
keep a timer with your name engraved on it! If you get out of work at 4:00pm, live only 15 minutes away and you come home at 4:20p.m. Trust and believe that between 4:15 and 4:20; you will receive a phone call as to your whereabouts! This woman knows how long it takes for you to shower, shit and shave. If any of the aforementioned goes over the time limit, she is knocking on the bathroom door striking up a random conversation and looking for inconsistencies in your story.
An INSECURE PERSON Will:
have every account that you ever owned; read, detailed, highlighted and PRINTED! (Cellphone, laptop and computer) access, birthdays, names, nicknames, history,present, future, phone numbers, phone bills, intercepted text messages, Social Website Access, Family Ties down to co-workers information furnished upon request!
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Informative, to say the least, but I wonder if these men
or woman have reasons to remain insecure? Its simple to label someone, but if these insecurities are justified due to one’s ongoing behavior, maybe its time to reevaluate the relationship??
When you’re in the midst of this insecurity, irregardless of how much reassurance you provide, how much integrity you display, the accusations are relentless.
I was accused of cheating when I spoke with female co-workers, at work, about work. We could be driving down the street and she would tell me that she saw me look at woman on the sidewalk.
She went through my cell phone, demanded to have my password to my email….
I had a few female friends from grade school on FB, she had some similar male friends.
Yet she made accusations that I was somehow fooling around with them. When I turned the tables on her, she said they were merely acquaintances from school.
We were both in our 50’s when this stuff went on.
This and much more went on for 8 years.
I finally no longer endure the constant berating and accusations.
I left her and now see how much damage her insecurities killed our relationship