When are we as parents going to STOP using our child(ren) as the bond for a relationship that has already come to an end?

Do not allow the ability to close your eyes; turn you away from the reality that it is over and the more you tell yourself that you are making this work for the child(ren), is often the door left open for hurt and confusion.

Without a doubt, not many children wish to be part of any separation and or divorce but as they get older and harness understanding, they already know the two of you are simply not meant to be.

If you have not done so already, bridge the gap of communication between you and your child.

Do not spring upon them that the relationship between you and the other parent is over but be sure they are aware from both parties how much they are loved and what you are going through is NO FAULT of theirs.

Needless to say, your child(ren) will need time to adjust to this new life and be sure to afford them the time required but do not speak poorly of the other parent.

This form of disrespect (regardless how you might feel) has been known to bring about actions within your child that were unexpected.

This is only the beginning of a road frequently traveled.

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