Why do I want your help? To be honest, who are YOU to know what I go through with MY relationship? You are not around when I am told that I will never do anything with my life without my significant other in it and so I BELIEVE that!

Last I checked, you are nowhere in sight when I am told by my significant other that I am paranoid, insecure or acting like a child when I question their whereabouts as to why they were out all night, or why they refused to answer any of my phone calls and text messages.

Who are YOU to tell me that I can do better?

Sure, you were available all of those nights that I cried myself to sleep after telling you that I was too busy to talk. I am not one for sound reason when I am feeling at my lowest point, I would much prefer to drown myself in sorrows that are never to be discussed. So no thank you, I do not care to hear that I deserve someone who is going to treat me with respect, when I have all of the DISRESPECT and NEGLECT that I can possibly stand in this life of mine.

What?!?! Watch your tongue as you tell me that my children should not be brought up this way! Yes, they watch as my significant other is in and out of my life; this is acceptable to me so why should you concern yourself? I am standing BEHIND my lover and I support every sound decision made.

You are jealous, for you will never truly understand THIS type of love from anyone!

When was the last time YOU were able to knowingly SHARE the one who LOVES you with someone else? Just last week, I found out they are expecting a child together. Initially, I thought that I was going to be extremely upset about it but since I was promised that our household will always come first; even with the new baby?!?! That is good enough for me.

Who are YOU to tell me that I can do better?

All that I will ever require is wrapped into one person; my needs, desires and expectations will always come second if at all and that is what REAL LOVE is supposed to be about. The ability to give your all whole-heartedly with no expectation of a return on your investment in them. You can call me naive, insecure, stupid, unstable, weak, paranoid, insignificant, foolish, crazy, dramatic or ignorant but I would prefer that you do not; I only enjoy hearing those words by the one who loves me MOST! My SoulMate!

Who are YOU to tell me that I can do better?