Commitment: I GIVE UP!

 So your “job” is done? You seen her, planned accordingly for her and without objection; fulfilled her happiness. Now what?
 
 There is no need to go further for you married him, gave him a child and prepared all of his favorite meals; now what?

 As the days progress, the two of you are finding more reason to call it quits than to stay together. She is working your last nerve on a consistent basis, he does not comprehend the basics and fails to meet your attention requirements.

 Apparently this is all we need to simply give up? The arguments are described as childish at best and with our new age microwave based outlook on relationships, if things do not change as we see fit, discard the moment.

 As the years press forward, relationships are not lasting as long. Our Grandparents and those before them put in TRUE time and it shows with the length of years the two have been together. They maintained a clear grasp on life and love, not caring much about who the next potential candidate would be if their bread was not buttered to near perfection.

 Disagreements did not determine the outcome of a commitment but now we are so detached from reality, all that remains are the stains of human imperfection.

 We can now update our questionable relationships via Tweet and or Facebook Walls. You can paint a pretty picture one day and the very next put your whole life out there for all to read and of course, once you feed the news; vultures are set to attack.

 Everyone has a remedy, reason or even a moment. It works to your advantage for in the morning you are listed as, “In a Relationship” and that very afternoon based off some pointless argument; your status is changed to, “Complicated” but it does not stop here! That same evening around 11pm your status has changed YET AGAIN and this time you become, “Single”? 

 Needless to say by morning after the tears, disrespect and text messages; a band-aid is given. The status is back to “In a Relationship” which is followed by a “Temporarily Suspended” account. Though this falls under another pointless action on your behalf; you are back on Facebook a few short weeks to 2 months later….. “IF THAT”…..

 This cycle is what destroys the foundation of your relationship. The integrity is a failed attempt and trust becomes a distant memory.

 There is no need to worry about working on longevity for if you time your status changes just right….. If you update your profile pics to feed the lust driven vultures….. If you cry on the right shoulder of the wrong man, you too can have your very own microwave relationship restored! 

 You cashed out of your old problem and took on someone else’s old problem! Which coincidentally becomes your new problem with the proper ingredients. FAILURE TO COMMUNICATE!

 If you need a key to a successful relationship, here is a good one for you. Keep others OUT of your issues, more people would rather you fail than succeed and misery loves company like you would NOT believe!

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