Appreciation goes a long way, consider it hand in hand with respect. Single parents are in multitudes and the dating game has reached an all time high. Are YOU ready for the package deal?
If you start a relationship with a single parent, there are no expectations that you take the place of their child(rens) mother or father but keep in mind that not EVERY child will take lightly to your presence.
Do not expect a warm seasons greeting upon entering their home, you are automatically an intruder for you are neither parent and even over time you are still out of place.
The attitude, “Well they are NOT my kids” probably will not get you too far. Time, patience and understanding is needed for matters of the heart and IF you are not ready to deal with such a package, it would be wise not to step foot into the Lions Den.
Do not make the mistake of trying to “buy” a child. You can purchase just about everything they WANT and they still will not see a reason to NEED you around. As you treat their parent with a love that is rare and you remain consistent, you will see how they just might open up to you or…….
For more, ask Daym