Complicated Commitment

 How often have you heard reasons that he or she could not be in a committed relationship? This is nothing new, it is reality to say that not EVERYONE is honestly ready.

 They have heard about and or saw so many other failed relationships, they only see the negative and would rather not deal with it at all. The easy part of any connection is the sex. Most people view it with no strings attached but the problem is when one of the two catches feelings; then things become complicated.

 Some figure, if I was open from the beginning that I did not want a relationship, why am I being hassled weeks to months later? The answer is simple; because your “situation” is now comfortable. When a man or woman reaches this level with you, the last thought is not being in a relationship while the first thought is of being exclusive.

 They tend to care less about the original grounds this open friendship was based. Now you are dealing with arguments, that in your mind were avoidable and all you want to do is walk away. Some walk while others stay to see what happens next; curiosity builds.

 How do you AVOID this complicated situation?

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