It comes from just about everyone, does it not? 

You receive it from your parents….
Elders in the church…..
Your best friends…..
Your enemies…
Books, social events, drunk people, Radio Hosts and random others.

 The most dangerous advice to receive comes from those who rarely follow their own but give it in abundance and so how do you sort out the good from the bad?

 Advice is therapeutic at times but known to be  disastrous to many relationships when given freely and measured at home as an experiment. That will leave you with a VERY DIFFERENT experience! 

 When in a relationship, your BEST advice will come from life lessons that involve YOU directly! Do not seek counsel from another man, when you have one in your life….

 To you, this may be harmless and you draw the conclusion that maybe if you get an answer from a man about why men do what we do, perhaps you would come back with a better understanding of your man….

MAJOR MISTAKE # 1

 Most men have predator tendencies and our intentions are not always for the best. Once we find the weak link in your relationship, we will attack and the moment you let your guard down, we go in for the kill.

 Removing one problem out of your life to allow another problem in, is the mistake of MANY! The question becomes, “When will this vicious cycle end?”

 It ends once you take action and finally control your own! Playing the timid, shy and reserved person will have you as the welcome mat for just about everyone who enters your life. 

 Those of you who fail consistently at making a decision that you can actually stick to; you will become the prey for the next predator.

 This is not to say that every man does not have good intentions while trying to assist your problems but being of imperfection, we need to FIRST solve our OWN before trying to resolve others. 

 Let no man EVER tell you that he has the right answers; for this places such a man upon a much higher level than most…. EPIC FAIL and truly an identifiable poor trait to look for when speaking with anyone.

 The bitter, miserable, depressed, angry and denied are only a few people to use your caution sign with when seeking help, if you feel a need to.

 If your heart has been flooded with disappointment, desperation and despair it is tainted and perhaps “listening to your heart” may not be what is best for you at that moment but this does not automatically count you out.

 All you need to do is step outside of your problem. Look at it for face value and measure every aspect of it!