If you had to say it, you are probably right. Now I need to ask, “Are YOU at fault, or is She?” Most men make the mistake of financially placing themselves on the buffet table to be picked at or picked up.
If you open the flood gates, THEY WILL COME RUSHING IN! Their needs and wants you can choose to satisfy or pass along but the result is the same. “Eff YOU, pay ME!”
Do not GIVE something that you do not want someone to take; that is common sense. If you succeeded at “buying” her in the beginning, chances are strong that you are left to keep up this investment with more on the purchasing end.
Or perhaps this NEW woman appeared out of nowhere. Months passed and everything played out as “normal” but recently she has been hounding you to make some changes. She wants YOU to give her MORE out of life; from the vehicle that she drives to her wardrobe. She had made it clear that if YOU do not make the necessary changes to fulfill her desires……
For more, ask Daym
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well you have never lied my dear friend… men with or without money make the mistake of doing things in the beginning that they would normally not do especially when their nose is wide opened… once you get that certain type of person opened to your “gifts” you better believe that they are going to expect a lot more…. so , if you cant afford it do not flaunt like you have it… if you have it and made that investment believe me when i tell you that you WILL have to make regular upkeeps. So my advice is… do not “buy” a person you will only be asking for that person to have a happy relationship with your bank act and not you!
Thank you Ms Dvus 1! 😉 You are absolutely correct! The unfortunate side is clear, this will only continue for those who allow it but if men and women are bubbling off the expense of another, “Such is Life”…