Cuddle Buddies are there to serve one purpose and one purpose only, comfort. There is a stability in having a cuddle buddy that you do not find in other “agreements” and that is having a clear mind that you are with someone for the evening who has no other expectations than to lay there and hold you. Nothing more, nothing less; they are placed into “Teddy Bear” status.

 Cuddle Buddies are good for those stressful days where you do not wish to go all out and entertain anyone for the evening sexually. When you are going through the type of drama that has your nerves shot and all you want for someone to do is sit there, shut up and understand. When it is all said and done, hold you and remind you that everything is going to be just fine.

 Most men take on the cuddle buddy role in hopes that it will transform into the “Friends with Benefits” which at times it is often known to escalate and do just that but not everyone ends up being as fortunate. Once you sign the Cuddle Buddy Contract; you are often stuck there until you decide that it is becoming too much to keep lying to yourself about.

 Being a cuddle buddy is not for everyone. If you find that you are an emotional female who gets wrapped up too easily and your cuddle buddy of choice made it clear that he or she does not wish for this cuddle buddy program to go any further, you may find yourself in a situation that is not meant for you. This goes for the men as well, we all are not built for the cuddle buddy program mentally! You need to follow a strict set of rules that are placed before you and if by chance you can barely pay attention to their needs, this program will REALLY have you messed up!

 What are the chances of creating a love connection off the Cuddle Buddy Program?

 The odds are in your favor if you were following the rules from the beginning but keep in mind; what you will see is known to cause heartache and discomfort. He or she WILL be in and out of relationships during your time in this program with that person and you need to be ready to receive a phone call and or text stating, “We need to cool things off a bit because I am getting serious with a NEW BODY”

 If you are not the type of person who can turn on and off like a light switch and more so when sex is not involved, DO NOT get yourself into the Cuddle Buddy Program. This is not to say that you should make yourself readily available when things do not work out for your old Cuddle Buddy; for they usually want you to pick up where things had left off.

 During the first phone call and or text conversation when you are placed into “standby” you need to keep the lines of friendly communication open so the other person knows if YOU are even available for renewal of the Cuddle Buddy Program if any changes take place in the future.

 The Cuddle Buddy Program is only as good as those who manage it. The question becomes, “Is this program for YOU?”

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