(Warning: This articular entry is Rated R: reader discretion advised) 

 Just how far are YOU willing to go in the name of lust? Are you open to being, “The Other Woman or Man?”  or perhaps just being a “Booty Call” from time to time works wonders for you?

 What drives a man or woman into the comfort of being, “The OTHER Lover?”  This has a lot to do with them having the ability to walk away without question. These people enjoy their position because they know it is not THEM who answers to someone else when they get home.

 More times than not, the OTHER Lover is single and they enjoy the freedom of having no strings attached. It is usually the CHALLENGE that excites them; they find being with someone taken is more exciting than just being with someone else who is already single.

 For many, commitment is a fear they are not ready to face.  An option to be in a relationship that does not necessarily FORCE commitment, is a gift in disguise for them. Now for the rough edge……. Emotions!

 When “the accused” sneaks out to be with their OTHER Lover, overtime feelings tend to develop and this is usually the case when more time is spent with the OTHER than the person at home. It always seems that the person on the outside knows more about “the accused” and understands them better, at least this is what many allow themselves to believe. This allows “the accused” to live the lie and embrace their need for greed. (Having your cake and eating it too)

 Now phase 2 sets in: Buying Time

Once your Other Lover feels a certain way about the “agreement” they will play the cards that they are dealt. When “the accused”  upsets their OTHER Lover, “The accused” is quickly remind how easy it is for the “Other Lover” to change their position, from the one who is getting fucked to the one who will fuck “The Accused” over and so they tend to “BUY TIME”…

 At the cost of  “The Accused”, they will create a temporary false sense of security to make sure that their business is not made public but do not think for a second this will end the problem. By buying time, “the accused”  secured their spot on the “Other Lovers” deception list. The “Other Lover” now has complete access to your wallet when they feel it is necessary and being this is the reality for many situations, “the accused” will go into the dangerous field of involving themselves with someone else who also has a man or woman at home; in hopes to kill any hush money payouts.

 If both of you already have someone and wish not to become the “whipping post”, you both play a reserved role in this love affair. The blueprint for cheating is a global one and not that it is right, the blueprint is one easy to trace and trail if people know EXACTLY what to look for!

 Things to look for in a cheating partner:

For more, ask Daym