How often are you on a first date and everything is going great in your eyes?

The food has been well prepared, the person that you are with can actually form full sentences and support a half decent structured conversation of substance; which leaves you nothing more than to enjoy a wonderful evening with someone who you can truly see yourself with when the time is right.

Almost too good to be true, right?

Somewhere between discussing your events for the evening and your meal, they ask about your family and this is where the waves truly begin to crash against the shore. You mention your children and suddenly you begin to notice that their expressions and body language is no longer the same, now why is that?

Most people fear what they do not understand and if someone is coming from a place in their current lifestyle where they have no child(ren) of their own with no intentions on starting a family, they will shy away from those with a child or children. Perhaps they have a child who may or may not live with them and they are not looking for a relationship with someone else who has a child.

This is far too common these days with certain people and it is disheartening to those of us with children to form a decent relationship with someone who initially appeared to be that person worth starting that new beginning.

To be honest, losing a moment with a potential mate over the fact that you have children is not the end of the world but when this is happening back to back with new prospects of “happiness” it is easy to see why so many feel that something many be wrong with them and this is not the case.

You need to know that your presentation is everything and loving yourself more than enough to ALLOW someone else into YOUR space is all that you need. If by chance they can not come to terms that you are more than just the average somebody due to the fact that you come as a package deal; your time is something they never truly deserved and it will forever be JUST THAT SIMPLE!

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